A Real Pain
Directed by Jesse Eisenberg
- comedy
- drama
The story
Mismatched cousins David and Benji reunite for a tour through Poland to honor their beloved grandmother. The adventure takes a turn when the pair's old tensions resurface against the backdrop of their family history.
What it’s like
Warm, muted and unhurried, with handheld close-ups that stay on faces during quiet exchanges and wider shots of rain-washed Polish streets, churchyards and train platforms in soft overcast light. The palette is gentle greys, creams and the faded greens of countryside, with a restrained acoustic score that drops out for long stretches so that footsteps, car engines and conversation carry the scenes. Its vibe is wry, tender melancholy: funny in its awkwardness, heavy in its undertow. The pacing is loose and observational, built from small detours and half-finished arguments, and it moves slowly toward a deeper register of grief. Two cousins, one grounded and one volatile, gradually let their guard down with each other as they circle a shared loss. Intensity is low to moderate: there is no gore and no graphic violence, but there are references to a suicide attempt, anxiety attacks and emotional outbursts, and the Holocaust is discussed through visits to memorials and sites, which land with sober weight rather than shock. Suited to a rainy weekend, a quiet evening, or anyone who wants a dramedy about family, memory and the strangeness of inherited history, for viewers who enjoy character-led films with more silence than plot.
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