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Don Jon

2013 · Directed by Joseph Gordon-Levitt

Original language: English

  • romance
  • comedy
  • drama

The story

A New Jersey guy dedicated to his family, friends, and church, develops unrealistic expectations from watching porn and works to find happiness and intimacy with his potential true love.

What it’s like

Bright, saturated New Jersey streets in daylight, with a glossy, heightened digital finish: tight apartment interiors lit by the cold blue glow of a laptop screen, then cut to warm kitchen light and crowded Sunday dinners. The editing is quick and playful, with split screens, sped-up montages of gym routines, and occasional direct-to-camera asides that give it a cheeky, sitcom-like snap. Sound leans on a bouncy pop and soul soundtrack, with the rhythm of a car radio and a lot of overlapping chatter. Its vibe is brash, scrappy and warm, the kind of comedy you watch with friends on a loud weekend night rather than alone in the dark. Pacing is brisk and the tone is comic and candid, with a steady undercurrent of earnestness as its central man, a self-absorbed but big-hearted guy, slowly learns to see past his fantasies toward a real connection. Intensity is high on sexual content: explicit pornography is depicted and discussed frankly, with nudity, sex scenes and masturbation shown on screen, though violence is minimal and the mood stays light. It suits viewers who enjoy raunchy, candid romantic comedy with real emotional payoff, not those seeking something gentle or family-friendly.

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